Along My Run | 4 - The New England Edition

I really enjoyed the change in scenery during my visit to Massachusetts. Instead of sweeping fields of corn, my eyes took in the tall pines, granite cliffs and forested green woods so prevalent in the Bay State. I sought out new places to run (Google Maps is great for this) and wasn't disappointed.


This trail is barely visible from the main street - it cuts through the forest then dumps into hilly field a leading up to an old homestead road.


Along the road, I ran past this property - a centuries old farm which appeared to still be in operation. The morning sun bathed the entire scene and I wished I could run up the driveway to see the fields below.

Also along this road was a cemetery - dating back to 1660. The town of North Andover was established in the 1630's, so I must have found my way along the original roads in town.


We spent two days south of Boston in Plymouth, where my parents live. Their neighborhood boasts an extensive network of walking trails that wind up and down through the pine trees - running them is always a challenge and delight.


I ventured into new territory, trying to find the Great Island Pond I had seen on the map. After running over four miles, I still hadn't found it and seriously considered turning around, but continued on and came upon this:

And so I had found Great Island Pond. If you can imagine, I stayed a little while to enjoy the perfect morning.


Some other scenes along my runs in Massachusetts:




Go Fast Enough to Get There, but Slow Enough to See - Jimmy Buffet

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Regarding Friendship

I've returned from a trip out east which included my 25th college reunion. Because I grew up in Massachusetts, I still feel like I'm "going home" each time I travel there, and we visit quite regularly - we fly into Boston, get to experience the Boston traffic and visit the city if we have time. Even so, we don't typically drive into Cambridge or MIT. The last time I was on the MIT campus was three years ago, and while that visit was nice (read about it here), is wasn't nearly as fun. The difference two weekends ago was the addition of old friends, which made me realize those friends are what made the visit so special.



I loved seeing my friends Amy and Deb. We were all Chemical Engineering majors (Course 10 for those familiar with MIT speak), which meant we logged hours working problem sets, studying for tests and running lab experiments together. More important than being classmates and lab partners, each woman provided a shoulder to cry upon, a listening ear and a beacon of support. We helped each other maneuver the years of transition into adulthood. We were missing one friend's presence - Robin. Robin, Amy and I traveled to Europe upon graduation and embarked on a month long adventure from the UK to France, Italy, Greece, Germany and the Netherlands. It's a trip I will never forget. Such are lifelong friends - we exchange holiday cards each year, attended or served in each other's weddings and watched our families grow.

We were Young Once

Close friends are special because it takes time to cultivate those relationships. Opening yourself to a new person leaves you vulnerable and open to rejection - at least it does for me. I estimate it took me at least three years once I moved here to really feel like I had a good group of friends and I am so blessed to have them.

Vegas, Baby! November, 2010

Friends are important for my kids and I love that each has a great group. Having the right friends is crucial in this crazy world they are growing up in.




This past year has given me more change in the friendship department than I really care for - one good friend moved away, another one is about do the same. I had new friends enter and friends disappear. Regardless, each friend has shaped and influenced my life. You never stop thinking about the close friends, any reconnection feels like they never left - you can pick right back up without missing a beat. Such is the mark of a special friend, with whom you can talk with about anything, who will listen and not judge what you have to say.

Special friends will do lots of crazy things with you!

CrazyK, 2011

Canoeing in the Rain - Turkey Run

Spelling Bee

Social Media sites (yes, Facebook and the like) make staying in touch with old friends so easy, but there is nothing quite like reconnecting with friends in real life, even if you have to travel across the ocean to do so.

Friends Reunited in Italy, 2010

College Roommates in the UK, 2013

Friends from Indiana - at the British Museum, 2013

Unfortunately, there are friends I will never see again - Tom and Ed, specifically.

Tom Murray, Summer 1988

Taken too early, but not forgotten.

"No Love, No Friendship can cross the path of our Destiny without leaving some Mark on It Forever" - Francois Mauriac

My friend, Kellie is moving away this weekend and we will miss her so. But we also know our friendship contains a special bond that is not easily severed. We will always be close in spirit. She posted this quote a few days ago.

“Close friends are truly life's treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty, they are there to guide and support us, to share our laughter and our tears. Their presence reminds us that we are never really alone." - Vincent van Gogh

Reach out and be a friend, or reconnect with one today. You will be forever changed.

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Let the Rain

It was raining Tuesday morning when I awoke, I could hear the staccato pings on the window and the gentle trickle of water running down the gutters. I did what I needed to do - I went out and ran in it. The cool rain first absorbed into my skin, hat and clothes before streaming down my face and legs, washing away any sadness I might have been feeling. If you have never run in the summer rain, go out and do it. Let the rain pummel you, let it consume you.



Remember the rain is only temporary - it only lasted until mile 2 and left the road glistening, the air clean and damp.

Later that day, the rain came again, but this time coupled with sunshine. I did what I needed to do - I grabbed my camera and captured the rare combination of golden sun falling from the sky which rendered the landscape sparkling and magical.







I looked up to the sky, opened my arms wide, then closed my eyes and let the combination of warmth and cool dot my outstretched arms and neck. It felt amazing.

Some days, I feel the rain has become a metaphor for my life, that it needs to be cleansed and refreshed, nourished and fed - after all, rain is needed for growth. I am often reminded of a favorite song, Let the Rain. Even if the rain falls, know that it serves a purpose and let it propel you forward.

I wish I were pretty
I wish I were brave
If I owned this city
Then I'd make it behave

And if I were fearless
Then I'd speak my truth
And the world would hear this
That's what I wish I'd do, yeah

If my hands could hold them you'd see
I'd take all these secrets in me
And I'd move and mold them to be
Something I'd set free

I want to darken in the skies
Open the floodgates up
I want to change my mind
I want to be enough
I want the water in my eyes
I want to cry until the end of time

I want to let the rain come down
Make a brand new ground
Let the rain come down
Let the rain come down
Make a brand new ground
Let the rain come down tonight

I hold on to worry so tight
It's safe in here right next to my heart
Who now shouts at the top of her voice
Let me go, let me out, this is not my choice

And I always felt it before
That the world was filled with much more
Than the drowning soul I've learned to be
I just need the rain to remind me

I want to darken in the skies
Open the floodgates up
I want to change my mind
I want to be enough
I want the water in my eyes
I want to cry until the end of time

I want to let the rain come down
Make a brand new ground
Let the rain come down
Let the rain come down
Make a brand new ground
Let the rain come down..... tonight

Let the Rain, by Sara Bareilles

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The Grand Poppy

Don't judge the plant when it first emerges from the ground - case in point, the Oriental Poppy. With leaves that look like dandelions on steroids, the poppy overcomes its unsightly foundation with puffy crepe paper blooms, nodding on delicate stems.








There are always flowers for those who want to see them. Henri Matisse

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Along My Run | 3

Back to Memorial Day Weekend:

I've run this path in the winter and it's just as nice in the spring.


I ran with visiting friend, Heather and we enjoyed the view atop the hill:

Running well is a matter of having the patience to persevere when we are tired - Robert De Castella

Memorial Day marked my 47th birthday, and what better way to start off a new year than with a run.


Morning skies.


I hit the road.


And into the country.

The freedom in running - it's the fresh air and the feeling that the only person you're competing with is you - Wilma Rudolph

The quotes are from Runner's World Motivational daily quotes that I receive via email. They inspire me and I hope I've inspired you to see something beautiful along your path today.

Captured While Running Album on Flickr

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The Hands Have It

It's summer and what better way to celebrate warm, balmy evenings than with live music. The Park District lines up bands for weekend performances at the local parks.

While I love the music, I find the details of instruments and musicians fascinating.

Such a beautiful guitar - I wonder what stories it could tell...

While I'm not a tattoo person, I was drawn to this arm - there's even a blue bass there...


I hope you check out the local events this summer coming to a park or pavilion near you.

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June 2014 Desktop Calendar - Free Download - The Spanish Peaks in Colorado

The company I work for partners with a private ranch in Colorado, at the foothills of the Spanish Peaks. Use of the ranch is limited to employees, retirees and their guests. We enjoyed a week long vacation there in 2009, and this month's calendar features two views of the mountain range.


To Download the above file, click on this link at box.com --> June 2014 Calendar - Colorado


To Download the calendar above, click on this link at box.com --> June 2014 Calendar - Spanish Peaks

To read about our adventures at the Bar NI Ranch in Stonewell, Colorado, click on this link --> list of blog posts.

To view photos from my flickr stream, click here --> Bar NI Photos on Flickr

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